Good Morning my dear readers, today I have another interesting piece of thought to share with you all. I am sure you all can relate to it very easily as it is a part of our everyday life.
We all have problems in life – big ones, small ones, personal, professional, relationship based, friendship based, work-life based, money related, emotions related – you name the variant and I am sure we all have it, in ample quantities that too.
When all of us have problems, what do we do? The easiest thing to do is to crib about them. Make yourself the poor victim and ask for sympathy from life – “Why Me? What have I done wrong? Why does life always treat me like this? Why am I so unlucky that all problems happen to me?”. I am sure these questions have been asked by all of us at some point of the time or the other when we undergo such challenges in life.
When we face problems, we do not think of them as challenges to better our self by facing and tackling them effectively. We only look at them as a burden that we have to carry with us on our shoulders. Our very approach and attitude is wrong and therefore our behavioral component of attitude also starts believing and acting the same way and we actually openly and visibly get upset and defeated by the problems we are facing.
Here I would like to state only one simple truth which will set your mind thinking. Have you ever heard about a lock being made which does not have a key? When locks are made, the accompanying key is also made with it and sold together. You cannot sell only a lock without key and nor a key without a lock – both have no value by themselves.
Same logic applies to our problems as well. When god makes problems for us, he also makes solutions for them. We only need to learn to have patience to unlock them. Once we have acquired that, then no problem will ever bother us as we have already found the key to the problem in our patience……our patience can by itself make the problem evaporate 90% and the rest is left to the solution to the problem.
So having learnt this valuable lesson, I am sure all of you will keep this in mind the next time you come across any such problems – Remember, The Key Has Already Been Made
Dr. Rajesh Mankani
